Monday, November 5, 2012
October has come and gone...
Because the NHL is still in a lock-out, being so far away hasn't been quite as hard on Clinton this season! :) (though is he is still hoping that the lock-out ends soon!) I know he's been itching to lace up some ice-skates and play some "real" hockey again!
We were skyping with family the other day and were able to see the snow back home. Clinton was trying to show Rorik what snow looked like, and it made us realize that the twins have no idea what snow is! :) What a surprise it'll be for them our first snowfall back home. :)
Things have been going well for us out here. We continue to work in our ministry fields... Clinton at the hangar and I at the medical clinic. The work itself doesn't change much as these are support roles and the least they change the better it is for everyone! :)
As for the work out here in PNG there are new and extremely exciting things happening all the time! 2 men here at Lapilo have started a new outreach of sorts. They are teaching bible lessons to the PNG preachers and religious leaders of PNG! Even though PNG has had some sort of Christian influence for approx. 100 years, they are still very immature in their knowledge of scriptures. The feedback from the conference they held this past week was overwhelming and they have quite a few more teaching opportunities coming up in the next few months.
I was talking with one of my bush missionary friends a few weeks ago and she was saying how much things have changed since their village has heard the gospel. She was telling me that shortly after they first arrived in the village a lady gave birth to twins. Twins are considered a horrible thing in many places in PNG as one of the old beliefs is that one twin is the good spirit and the other twin is the bad spirit. What usually happens is the father tries to figure out which twin is the bad spirit and then kills that child. However, in this case that my friend was telling me about, the father couldn't figure out which was the evil twin and so he killed them both just to be safe. Another instance of infanticide in this village is that if a mother has too many children to raise and none of the relatives want to adopt the new baby, then the mother or father will take a piece of firewood and knock the newborn on the head to kill it quickly and then bury it right where it's born. The good news that I mentioned earlier is that since my friend's family and other team members have presented the gospel to this village, there is no more infanticide of any kind! They are allowing both twins born to a woman to live and there is now always someone willing to care for any child born in that village. Praise God! I know there are many who believe that westerners should leave people alone in their beliefs and cultures... however, these villagers are so excited to not live in fear of the spirits anymore. They have expressed their joy over and over again that God's talk was brought to them so they could be free! It's incredible the stories that I've heard over here and it just makes me realize how necessary foreign missions truly is.
We have been so blessed to be a part of this work out here in PNG and we thank God for your part in keeping us out here. The gospel is so much bigger than any one of us and seeing it change lives is so mind-blowing that you know it is not of anything human hands or minds can bring about, but it's the work of God and His Spirit touching and healing the lives of these individuals. Praise God with us for the work that is going on in PNG! :) I'll stop preaching for now, but it's exciting eh? :)
We celebrated Tayah's 6th birthday this past month and she had quite the birthday party :). I even created a beautiful masterpiece of a cake... it was a barbie cake!
Then a few weeks later we celebrated Clinton's 28th birthday. And yes, he was spoiled a bit! :) I made a wonderful trifle with angel food cake, however it exploded all over my oven so the treat was a lot of work as I then had to scrub out my oven! Oh well, I'm still learning. :)
Clinton has now started an online course through Steinbach Bible College. His plan is to finish off his pastoral degree when we return next summer, so he's getting a head start! It's a lot of reading and assignments but I know he can do it well.
On that note, I'll sign off. We truly want to thank you all for your continued prayers and support. We appreciate the emails, notes of encouragement and skype calls.
You are all special to us and we pray God's richest blessings on you all.
Clinton & Rolanda, Tayah, Aowyn, Rorik
Prayer Requests:
1. Clinton's course: focus and understanding of the course material
2. the church of PNG: growth in maturity and numbers
3. personnel for the hangar: pilots and mechanics
4. safety for our family
5. finances: especially as we look to the cost of coming home next summer and setting up a house when we get home
Saturday, September 15, 2012
Catch up time!
Lapilo center tends to empty out pretty quickly after school lets out at the end of May, so the "summer" months are fairly quiet around here... except at our house of course! :) We spent the summer months relaxing and continuing on with our regular routines. Tayah completed her kindergarten year (which I homeschooled) and she did well. She was granted admission into the 1st grade class out here based on some entrance tests she did. She is the youngest in her class by 8 months! We felt that might have been a hindrance to her, but she has been doing great! The school year started off at the end of July and Tayah has been loving every day of it!
She does great at math and reading, though her hand-writing skills need improvement. She tends to write very slanted letters so we've been practicing extra hard with that. I am amazed at how far she has come with reading... her mind seems like a sponge! This is also very handy as she has a bible class in which she has to learn a bunch of verses, she's been picking them up so quickly! Needless to say, we're quite proud of our student! :)
The end of July also brought about the twins' 3rd birthday. We celebrated quietly at home with cake and some presents. The twins seem to have grown up so much in the year that we've been here... but I guess that's to be expected! :)
August brought about Tayah's 2nd root canal procedure. This time however, Tayah and Clinton were able to travel in with a friend of ours who had to take his boy to the dentist for a root canal as well! The Lord worked out a great blessing for us. This saved us a lot of money as this friend owns his own car so we didn't have to rent and the gas was split between both our families. It also provided a great deal of safety in travelling as the more men you travel with the safer you are! I didn't worry nearly so much this time around. Another blessing was that this root canal took 3 visits instead of 4 and none of them caused Tayah much pain. She actually really looked forward to visiting the dentist! He is a really nice man and always complimented Tayah on her pretty dresses :).
As for our ministries out here...
Clinton continues to fill 2 positions at the hangar and is keeping up fairly well. He still enjoys being busy and truly enjoys working with the guys at the hangar. Pilots and mechanics seem to be in great demand and short supply. It's been a source of frustration and anxiety for many, not knowing if we'll have the personnel to keep the flight department running. It's a great snowball effect. If the flight department can't fly then the tribal missionaries can't stay in the tribes as they can't get food/supplies and they won't be able to come out in case of medical emergency or for other reasons. We are getting desperate for more pilots/mechanics, but in all this, we know that God has not forgotten. He knows our needs and in all honesty, the people of PNG mean much more to Him then they do to us ultimately. We love our national brothers & sisters, but these are the people Christ died for... He will provide. His ways are not our ways and His thoughts are so much greater than ours! Who are we to complain or demand our way... (these are great things to remind myself of when I start to feel anxious or forgotten).
As for the clinic, we continue to run with a fairly full staff right now! Praise God! We have 2 American doctors this year, 1 RN from Germany, 2 from the states, and me! 1 of the American nurses will be going home in December, but we'll manage. I truly enjoy all the new skills I am learning. I'm quite proficient at the xray machine and lab machines. I enjoy the pharmacy aspect of it as well as I'm learning more about medications. I love the variety of patients that come in, the vast array of different diseases/illnesses and the differing degrees of severity within the patients. I love how we all work together to bring about healing, but how ultimately we all recognize God's hand in the medical care we give. I love the opportunity to practice my Pidgin with the patients, they are very understanding when I mess up or say something wrong...and very quick to laugh with me when I say something completely inappropriate! :) I'm still learning!
Socially we are involved in a few things...
Clinton plays soccer or hockey on sundays. Though soccer has become his new favorite game to play out here. He really misses the ice and I know he's looking forward to playing some real hockey when he gets home next winter! :)
I am involved in a ladies Bible study on Grace by Kay Arthur. It's been truly a blessing to me to be able to meet with these ladies and learn from them. I also play women's floor hockey on monday nights... and I love it! :) Who would have thought eh? My slapshot is actually better than Clinton's now... :)
Tayah is involved in wednesday night soccer for grades 1-4 and she loves the competition! Many times we'll catch her doing spins and ballet moves on the court rather than focusing on the game, but she's still having fun! Tayah has 2 days left of school for this term. (our school year has 4 terms). She's excited for the break, but I think she'll get bored pretty quick! :) My job will be to keep them all occupied!
It's been raining a lot the last few days, lucky for our family we love the rain! However, it does cause problems for the nationals if there is too much rain. It floods gardens and ruins the food, it also causes mudslides and the river to rise and wipe out more gardens. It's also more treacherous for them to cross the river as it rises.
Well I'll sign this post off for now, but I just wanted to say thank you to all who have been praying for us and continue to pray for us. We love you all!
Some items to pray for specifically:
1. personnel for NTM aviation (for pilots/mechanics)
2. for our continued health and safety
3. that we would serve with a joyful heart even when things are difficult or we miss home
God Bless!
Friday, June 22, 2012
June!
The sunday before grandma left we went to visit a fairly local village church. To get to it you have to cross a fairly wide river that was almost chest deep with a pretty good current. It was quite the adventure to get there! :) It was a lot of fun though and we didn't lose grandma in the river! :) The fellowship with the national believers was sweet and they were very inviting and gracious. Even though we couldn't understand everything, we knew the message was Christ-centered. It's lovely to hear God's Word in different languages...that's what it's all about right? Reaching every tribe!
June also brought about Tayah's complaints of 2 of her molars giving her pain almost daily. I was giving her pain medication quite often so we were finally able to get an appointment at the nearest dentist here in PNG which is still a 2 hour drive away. The dentist is with another mission organization called SIL. He took a quick look in her mouth and said she needed root canals on both those molars. Ahhhhh! That involves 4-5 trips per tooth which is a lot of driving and very expensive for us. We asked if he couldn't just pull them both out, but as they are molars they would only naturally fall out around age 11 and in the meantime the space would close and not have room for her adult teeth to come in and then she couldn't possibly need braces or surgery. Also if he were to pull them out now, that would involved a fairly difficult surgery. So the only option available to us was the root canals. So we started the first one and it was quite painful for Tayah the first time, but the subsequent treatments on that tooth have been fairly pain free! Praise God! Due to elections happening soon, we will have to postpone the 2nd root canal as the travel will become dangerous for us on the roads due to rioting or protesting. So pray with us that Tayah's 2nd molar won't cause her too much pain in the meantime. We should be able to continue with the 2nd root canal at the end of august.
I mentioned elections. The election process out here is very different from back home. The candidates all do their speeches and rallies, though they also feed the people to gain votes. There is a lot of blackmail and bribing that takes place to ensure votes in their favor. There is a lot of violence between opposing candidates and their followers. There have already been a few election-related deaths in the past few weeks. The candidating seems to go on for a long time. We hear them on the speaker phones driving down the road and talking about their chosen leader's good qualities and what he's promised the country. The people who stand with a certain candidate will spend hours a day singing and campaigning for him. The vote is supposed to take place in early July and there is expected to be a sharp rise in violence and rioting once the ballots have been tallied as many won't be happy about the outcome. Of course the towns are a higher safety issue, though people are targeted on the road as well which is why we are not supposed to travel during this time.
I have also been very busy in the Mission Barrel. The Mission Barrel is a place where missionaries here at Lapilo can drop off items that they no longer need/use and also pick up any items they see there that they would like. It's like a free self-help! :) I am now the Mission Barrel co-ordinator so I've been busy organizing. As the mission barrel co-ordinator I also have a lot more interaction with the national workers here on center. For items that remain in the mission barrel for too long, I pack up and sell to the workers here for a very small fee. The reason we charge anything at all is to keep things fair between the workers so they don't get jealous or fight with each other. We find that charging a small amount and pre-packing the bags takes care of any perceived injustices.
Clinton is still busy in the hangar. The number of pilots and airplane mechanics has been slowly going down as missionaries are going on furlough or leaving the field. Pray with us that the Lord would raise qualified pilots who have a heart to fly in PNG.
This past week a national friend of mine, Jeogina, stopped by for a visit. It was nice to have her over. The kids all love her and love playing with her. I love the opportunity to visit and learn more language and culture issues. It helps me understand the people we're trying to reach. Jeogina actually became a christian at a young age when her mother took her to the village church. Her sunday school teacher told her about Jesus.
Well as I mentioned in the post, there are a few things we'd appreciate prayer for:
- Tayah's root canals: minimal pain, safety traveling to SIL (2 hr drive each way), and finances to cover the cost of the treatments as well as the cost of travel.
- Election time out here in PNG: things can get quite heated, just that we would remain safe
- For my busyness in the Mission Barrel: should slow down in July
- For pilots and the aviation department here in PNG
- For our family: health, patience with raising 3 young kids
We just want to thank you all for praying for us and going the distance with us on this journey. We love you!
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The village church we visited with Ann |
My friend Jeogina over for a visit |
Tayah at the dentist at SIL |
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Can you make me 6 uteruses?!?!
The airplane we flew in and out on was quite small, though the ride was surprisingly smooth! The aerial view was fantastic to see the mountains and the valleys and the tribal locations.
Ann has been busy cooking us all our favorite meals and basically just spoiling us all rotten! The kids are constantly hanging on her or sitting on her or playing with her...and she doesn't seem to mind! :) How we've missed grandma! Tayah wants to keep her until we go back to Canada next summer. Aowyn has practically lived on grandma's hip since she got here and I'm not sure she'll remember how to walk once grandma goes home! :)
Tayah has been homeschooled this year and the kindergarten teacher invited her into the class for 3 days one week to experience the classroom and prepare her a bit for next year grade 1 as she will be going to school. Tayah loved the experience though she did complain of the long days (will she ever need some time to adjust to full days in grade 1!). She had to do some testing to see if she was ready for grade 1 and she did really well.
This past week I "inherited" another ministry here on center. I am now the "bossman" for the mission barrel. The mission barrel is a room where missionaries can drop off items that they no longer need or want (ie. clothes, electronics, household items, etc.- kind of like a selfhelp). All missionaries are allowed to visit the mission barrel at any time and take whatever items they want, no cost. It's a wonderful blessing to many out here and Clinton & I have used it many times. Our kids love visiting the mission barrel to hunt for new treasures (toys). Now I am in charge of organizing the new items that come in. So far it's been fun! (though quite time consuming at times).
Now for the story that inspired my title for this blog... :)
I was asking one of my national friends if she would make a few bilums (crochet bags) for my mother-in-law to bring home for her grandchildren. Instead of saying "...bilum long pikini..." (bilum FOR children), I said, "...bilum bilong pikini..." (which means uterus!). I had just asked her if she would make me 6 uteruses! I realized my mistake almost immediately and we both laughed for quite awhile over my language mistake :).
We have also taken Ann to the market here in Goroka and it was so muddy that day that we had very muddy feet for the rest of our time shopping. I believe it constitutes a cultural experience! :)
Our visit with Ann has been so fantastic, and unfortunately the time is coming to an end in just under 2 weeks. We're all really going to miss her...sniff sniff!
Well I should sign this post off as well, thank you for reading and following our journey and adventures out here in PNG. Blessings to you all!
Love, Clinton & Rolanda
Catch-up time!
It's been a long dry spell for my blogging and I'm truly sorry! It seems that whenever I'm "in the mood" to blog, our internet connection fails or something else comes up. So tonight, sit back and let me catch you up on the going ons of the Friesen family out yonder in PNG. :)
I'm not sure if I've mentioned before that I am currently the school nurse out here for our mission school (NCA- Numonohi Christian Academy). In any case, I'm in charge of keeping the school lice free which means I check all the elementary kids' hair at the beginning of each term. So our final term started in the beginning of April which meant lice check time! :) I head off to school with my personal sized bottle of hand sanitizer and my hair in a bun. I'm always a little nervous at first as I really don't like lice, but after the first few critters scurry across my fingers I get braver! I have the do or die attitude with lice...if you show yourself I will catch you and squish you and then that child is sent home with a note to treat for headlice and how to prevent re-occurrence, etc. Often times the children who have lice are the ones who live in one of the nearby villages and attend our school and it's so hard to control lice in those kids. Part of the reason is that they live in such close proximity to other kids/adults with lice who are not being treated and the other part is that lice is ultimately a part of life for many of the village folk. You'll often see them sitting and visiting with each other while picking through a child's hair and pulling out the lice and nits. In any case, after I'm done head checking, I do a thorough washing of myself and I always have the heebeejeebies for the next day or two. (And of course, I'm always convinced I have lice too!) :)
We celebrated Easter a little different than usual this year. We still had an easter egg hunt for the kiddos, but there was no gatherings or church supper. We did have some friends over for supper and had a great time with them. The day after Easter, Clinton was able to go golfing for the first time since we'd been out here. He had a great time with a few other guys and actually won the game by a small margin! (all while using quite outdated golfclubs!) What a pro eh? :) A unique thing about golfing out here though is that you have to use a national caddy and you pay them 10 kina (about $5) and a bottle of coke. Clinton's caddy was a girl and he said she had an amazing eye for following where he hit is golfball...even when he thought it was in the complete other direction, she would find it!
April 23rd we celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary! Yay for us eh? :) We were able to go out for dinner to Goroka to a restaurant called "The Pacific Gardens" which is a really nice restaurant out here. We were actually able to go out ALONE as in we had a friend babysit for us, I believe that was probably our 2nd date since coming out here 10 months ago.
On April 27th Tayah participated in the NCA field day. It was so much fun! Clinton got the day off so we were able to walk around to the various events and watch Tayah participate in different games such as: sack race, 2 legged race, 50 meter race, jump rope, beanbag toss, obstacle course and some other group games. Tayah placed 3rd in the beanbag toss and got a certificate...she was so pleased! (as were her parents ;)) An unexpected medivac landed one of our bush missionaries in the middle of our races via helicopter. As the landscape is very hilly/mountainous out here, the only flat area for our helicopter to land is on our soccer field so our missionary who was ill had quite the reception with all the students and parents watching his arrival. (poor guy!) He's doing great now though! Turned out to be a pretty nasty case of Dengue Fever.
The end of April brought about the most exciting even for us so far...Grandma arrived!! :) For all of you who prayed for her flights...thanks! She had no unexpected delays, no baggage fees, all her baggage made it out here and she made it here to PNG in one piece with her sanity still intact! :) We were all soooo excited to see her come out of the gate...the kids were squealing (oh wait, that was probably me!), but in any case, it was a great reunion. :) Our time with her has been going by far too fast, but we are enjoying each moment and are loving just being able to "hang out" just like back home.
If you want to read more about our adventures together with Ann then keep reading on to the next post, but I'm gonna cut this one off for now as it is already quite long!
Thursday, March 22, 2012
March Madness! :)
Saturday, February 18, 2012



Hello Friends! Mipela laikim yupela! (we love you!) - I think I said that right :)
Well it seems like time goes by so fast sometimes and we always have good intentions of updating our blog more regularly, but alas, I regret to inform you all that we're not perfect! :) For all of you who didn't already know that already. :) I'll do my best to catch you up on the going-ons of the Friesen clan out here in PNG
The work in Papua New Guinea continues to draw believers to the Lord. In one village the Phase 1 teaching, which culminates in Jesus rising from the dead recently came to a conclusion. We have often seen the NTM video of an entire village celebrating the conclusion of this teaching and coming to the Lord as one body, but that was not the case in this village. The people said that this teaching was “strong”, but few made commitments to the Lord. And yet, we praise God for a few that did understand and gave a clear testimony of their faith and acceptance of Jesus' atoning sacrifice.
Clinton recently was talking with our missionary in another village and he spoke of how they were seeing a need to go back into a previous phase of the teaching because they were seeing that their young believers were not truly understanding some basic fundamentals of the Gospel. The people would say that they were saved by faith alone. However, these same people would define faith as the good works they do. This is a culture that has a very hard time understanding the idea of a free gift. The people may give a “free gift”, but they will always come to get a “free gift” from you at a later time. So, work goes on to try to help the people understand that the gift that was given could never be paid back, no matter how hard they tried!
Still another missionary reported that they were having troubles in their church with believers stopping joining in fellowship when previously they were very active. When they question deeper into what has gone on they find a similar problem with the understanding of salvation by faith. These believers have come up with their own idea of how many good works it would take to pay for God's gift of salvation, and after doing the math, they find they have paid God back and no longer need to be a part of the church. So, prayer is needed for all the many works going on by all affiliations in all the world that are bringing the true gospel.
In our family life we doing well, and continue to thank the Lord for the peace we have at being in PNG. Clinton is enjoying being a part of the work with our aviation program, and I am very thankful to get into the clinic and offer my skills as a nurse one day each week. I got to say, being out here has definitely been strengthening my skills and also helping me develop new ones. I love it!
I have also been doing photography again, every saturday for the past 8 weeks I've been donating approximately 1 hr of my time to doing senior portraits for the graduating kids out here. It's been a lot of fun for me to get back into photography and the seniors are such fun to photograph.
Tayah is doing really well in school and is reading really well. That is a really big blessing, since we were nervous about home-schooling her. She really is thriving with the individual attention she gets this way, but she is looking forward to joining kids her age for grade 1.
Just before Christmas we were moved from our house right near the gate into Lapilo to a place on the top of the hill in Lapilo. It has been a real blessing to move as our children are not constantly having to play on the road. Just the other day a family here gave us their swing and slide to keep at our place, which the kids are loving. The house also has an extra bedroom and the extra space is quite helpful. Not to mention that this house has a bathtub, which was really exciting for Clinton and the kids (though Tayah prefers showers just like her mama)!
We are beginning to gear up for a visit from Clinton's mom, Ann Friesen, sometime in July or August! Hopefully those plans can come together, and in the cheapest way possible. It will be really nice to show a family member what we have been up to, and for the kids to see grandma again!
The other day my national friend, Jojina, stopped by for a visit and while we were talking she was telling me how her husband, Aute, had loved the banana bread I had sent home with them awhile ago. Jojina was telling me that Aute was bragging to all his family in their village about how good it was, and yet when they came to visit him to try some of it he refused to share! He said it was far too good to share. :) I just laughed, Aute is known as quite a funny man in his village and he's always a joy to talk with. Jojina is a believer but Aute is not. He has been told the gospel but is still not ready to accept Christ. Please remember to pray for him.
While I was visiting with Jojina she told me she had to be somewhere by 3 o'clock sharp. So I was supposed to tell her when it was time. So our visit continued and I looked at my watch and realized it was a few minutes after 3, so I told her the time expecting her to pack up and head out. Instead she said ok and continued making her bilum (crochet bag), I was a little confused but was like ok, maybe this is a cultural thing. About 5 minutes later I started thinking maybe I said the time wrong...sure enough when I asked her what time I had told her it was she said "you said 5 minutes to 3 o'clock", after I finally got out the correct time, we had a good laugh over my poor pidgin and she was on her way. :) I've got lots of learning to do yet! Makes me wonder what else I've said to people around here! :)
One prayer request we have is for our passport renewals. We need to renew by April even though our passports don't expire until october, but PNG rules are that we will not be allowed to travel to any other country (including Australia in case of medevac) if our passports are less than 6 months to expiration. Therefore we have started the whole procedure and the only glitch so far is that I forgot Clinton's birth certificate at home (I think), and so we had to order a new one. Please just pray that all will go smoothly.
Another prayer request is for our finances, we're doing good! :) Bet you don't hear that very often eh? ;) All kidding aside, we are fairing well, though occasionally we have had to use some of our "saving for tickets home" fund. The issue is that the currency out here (the Kina) is rising in value compared to the Canadian dollar and so our money doesn't stretch as far as when we were first here. Costs are also continually increasing, for example electricity costs just increased 15% this past month alone. We are trying to be good stewards of all our finances and God has been very faithful in taking care of us out here.
Again, we thank all of you that have supported us in prayer and finances, making it possible for us to be here! We ask that as you think of us you would continue to pray for the work being done in PNG, and for your part in that specifically, and we would also be thankful if you felt led to support us financially.
May God bless you, keep you, and may His face shine upon you and give you peace,
Lukim yupela (see you all, common farewell greeting),
Clinton and Rolanda Friesen